All Hallows Eve Celebration

Over the past 2-3 years, our family has been phasing out Halloween.  We don't like how the American Halloween celebration has turned morbid, gruesome, and sexual, so we wanted to shift our focus to the traditional celebration of All Hallows' Eve.

This afternoon, we will be hosting our first All Hallows' Eve celebration.  All attendees were invited to dress as their favorite saints.  The participating families were asked to bring a cardboard or wood "headstone" with the names of their deceased loved ones written on it.  We will begin our party by praying a decade of the rosary for the Holy Souls in Purgatory, particularly for our loved ones.  We will then pray a litany of the saints, invoking all of our patron saints.  Then, while dinner finishes cooking, the kids will be able to watch a couple of animated videos about saints (We'll be watching Francesco's Friendly World and The Day the Sun Danced) while they color pictures of saints.

The decorations will be focused on autumn and Catholicism -- no scary stuff here!  I'll be serving Butternut Bisque, cornbread, spiced apple cider, and Apple Cider Caramel Cookies.  

After dinner and dessert, the adults will have time for fellowship and the kids will have time to play.  Hopefully, this will be a fun, spiritual day and our children will come to not miss "Halloween" at all!

 

Praying with the Saints for the Holy Souls in Purg

The Day The Sun Danced

Parental Watch List - Books that Include Abortion

It should be no surprise that I am pro-life, as I am a practicing Catholic mother of at least 4 children.  In my leisure reading, I have found many casual references to abortion and I feel that people, especially parents, should be made aware of these books.  I am not encouraging book banning, as I believe that some of these books have many redeeming qualities.  However, I feel that parents need to be aware if their children are reading these books so that they can provide parental guidance and open a discussion regarding life issues.

**Keep in mind that the following may include plot spoilers**

• Daisy Fay and the Miracle Man by Fannie Flagg - All-in-all, this is a cute story about a spunky girl who grows up in a quirky, struggling family.  Some parts are a bit off-color, there is fornication, and marriages break up, but the title character overcomes.  However, in one scene, a character goes to procure an abortion and learns that the abortionist has a successful front business because she knows everyone's "dirty" secrets.
• The Color of Water by James McBride - This is a riveting read about religion and race relations and the son who grows up in a mixed-race, mixed-religion family.  Just be warned that a character is basically coerced into getting an abortion when she finds herself pregnant at the age of 17.

Book Review - Saints Behaving Badly

Saints Behaving Badly

I just finished reading Saints Behaving Badly by Thomas J. Craughwell. I have to admit that if I hadn't seen an advertisement in a Catholic magazine for the book, I would have been a bit turned off by the title because I can imagine someone with anti-Catholic sentiments gleefully trying to slander our saints.

I found Saints Behaving Badly to be a quick, easy, and fascinating read.  The author went into greater detail about some of the saints' follies than I had previously read in other books.  The take home message that no matter how far you fall into sin, you can always repent, convert, and lead a life of sanctity was comforting to me.

However, I have to say that the cover image and the little icons of angels and devils in the book bothered me.  I can't stand it when satan is portrayed in a cute or comic manner because I believe it lessens the impact of his evil.  By using an illustration of a saint with a devil's pointed tail, I believe the author and/or publisher either doesn't respect the saints or doesn't believe in the depth of satan's evil.  (I tend to think this was the publisher's decision since the book itself is very respectful toward the saints.)

All-in-all, I think that Saints Behaving Badly is worthwhile reading, especially for a busy mom like me who doesn't seem to be able to find a lot of time to sit and focus on more heady subject matter.

Bleeding Heart Flower

It's spring, and though I have a brown thumb, I was in a gardening mood.  So on Holy Thursday, I headed to my local Lowe's to look for a perennial plant that would grow in the shady bed near our front porch.  This beautiful bleeding heart flower caught my eye since it reminded me of The Sacred Heart of Jesus.  I bought it on Holy Thursday and planted it on Good Friday.  I'm hoping that it will serve as a permanent reminder of Jesus' sacrifice for us. 

Lord Jesus Christ, Your Heart still cherishes all the redeemed and is moved to pity for every human need. Aware of Your invitation, "Come to Me," we pray for the afflicted, the sick, the confused, for all broken hearts, and shattered lives. We bring to You all their material, emotional, and spiritual needs as well as our own. By the love that led You to take flesh of the Virgin Mary, we plead for a favorable response to our prayers.

Amen.